Even a “No” from God has goodness written all over it.

I love this quote because it’s been proven to be true over and over again in my life. I’ve received so many DMs from girls dealing with heartbreak and struggling to trust God in the process of finding “the one.” Let me be the first to say, I went through A LOT of frogs before I found my prince I had 2 long term relationships before Niko. Both lasted over 3 years and many other flings and interests in between where God gave me a hard “NO.” There were many instances where I was dating someone and honestly there was nothing wrong but I just felt like something was off. In my gut I felt like God was saying “he’s not it.” It’s important to be obedient to God when you feel that because I 10000% believe that’s God trying to steer you away from something that isn’t from Him. It’s hard to do, but when you know...you know!

I was single for 4 years before I met Niko and there were many times I started to question where the one from God was. BUT I decided to flip the perspective. I started to tell myself DAILY that God was preparing us for each other (because He was). That maybe we weren’t ready yet, because after all His timing is PERFECT. I started to pray for my future husband every day. I prayed for his heart and I prayed he was obedient to God so that nothing would steer him off his path to me️

If you’re struggling with heartbreak I encourage you to trust God harder than you ever have and lean on Him like never before! You’ll know when your person is from Him. TRUST ME. Everything makes sense when it’s from Him. Everything from your past will make sense. All the “no’s” will make sense. You’ll feel it and you’ll know! So I encourage you to wait for that....wait for God’s best! I am sure and glad that I did!